• Does Frequently Catching Cold and Fever means HIV? Posted by Admin on Nov 19, 2018

    Does Frequently Catching Cold and Fever means HIV

    Does Frequently Catching Cold and Fever means HIV?

    The probability of occurrence of colds and viral respiratory illnesses among people with HIV is significantly higher than among healthy ones. The name of the disease speaks for itself – immune deficiency means "lack of" immunity. Weakened by the presence of HIV, the body is not able to resist the new entered bacteria and viruses, especially if it is the body of a child with fragile.

    The medication depends on the clinical condition of the patient and the compatibility with ART (antiretroviral therapy). If medications are chosen wrongly and they are incompatible with each other, possible toxic poisoning may occur. The consequences of incorrect therapy may be fatal.

    Any cold in an HIV-infected can develop into flu, bronchitis, and pneumonia. This can happen in a few hours. When you a cough, feel weakness, chills, and your body temperature rapidly increases, you should call an ambulance, not trying to cope with the symptoms on your own, using ordinary people's methods.  You should keep in mind that a few hours is enough to chill the child's HIV to the flu.

    Treatment of cold in an HIV-infected is complicated by the fact that there are no drugs that give 100% guarantee of recovery. Against viruses, which secrete neuraminidase and cause respiratory infectious disease together with influenza type A and type B, there may be only special medications. These drugs will not destroy other groups of viruses. The decision on the appointment of such medications can only be accepted by a doctor.

    It is very important in the early stages to use antiviral drugs to treat flu in people who are very sick with the flu (for example, those who were admitted to the hospital). Additionally, it is important for people who are at risk for serious complications from flu such as people with HIV / AIDS. Studies have shown that antiviral drugs are most effective for the treatment of influenza if they are applied within 2 days after onset of the disease. The benefits of their use may be even after two days, especially if the patient is at a greater risk of serious complications from influenza or if a person has certain symptoms (such as shortness of breath, chest pain/pressure in the chest, dizziness or confusion).

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  • HIV basics: Can I get HIV From Oral Sex? Posted by Admin on Nov 15, 2018

    HIV basics: Can I get HIV From Oral Sex?

    HIV basics: Can I get HIV From Oral Sex?

    Oral Sex and HIV

    The question is, is it possible to become infected with HIV while having unprotected oral sex. Oral sex with a condom usually causes unpleasant feelings among many. However, is it worth the risk?

    Each person is responsible for their own health, makes choices based on their awareness of modes of transmission of STIs (sexually transmitted infections) and HIV, the possible dangers of certain behaviors. If your partner tells you that he is HIV - positive, this does not mean that he does not have HIV. If it looks "decent human being" or "healthy enough", it also makes no guarantees about their HIV status and the lack of STIs. Probably many people would like to hear what kind of sex is safe. We assume that you already know about transmission of the virus, and offer you this knowledge to think again about possible dangers and means of protection when engaging in oral sex.

    Ways of Spreading the Infection

    It is possible to become infected with HIV through oral sex. Although this kind of sex is safer than unprotected sex (active or passive role). But can you always say with certainty that you have no bleeding gums not inflamed mucous membranes of the mouth and throat? How regularly do you visit the dentist? If you have bleeding gums, the inflamed mucous membrane of the oral cavity, a sore throat or you feel cold, it better to avoid unprotected oral sex. The same applies to the healing period of the gums after tooth extraction, filling, cleaning teeth from plaque and other procedures at the dentist. It is not recommended to brush your teeth 2 hours before and after oral sex as a toothbrush can damage the gums, thereby creating an entrance gate for infections. Not everyone uses a condom for oral sex, but it is a voluntary choice. It is important to remember that in addition to HIV, there is another infection. Many diseases are transmitted during unprotected oral sex. For example, the transmitted pathogens are hepatitis B and C. Hepatitis can be transmitted through unprotected oral or anal sex, as well as RMG (oral-anal contact).

    The transmission of HIV from woman to woman is quite low. But that does not mean the absence. There are reports about the possibility of HIV infection during unprotected sexual intercourse of women with women. It is recommended to avoid oral sex with a woman in the menstrual period or immediately after menstruation because blood is often transferred to pathogens of viral infections. The main infection among women who have sex with women, in addition to the risk of HIV is vaginal candidiasis (thrush).


    Prevention of the Disease

    Actually, it is up to you how to behave in a case with the mentioned illness. In order to protect you and your partner, you should be quite careful while contacting the person. Try to speak about the possible danger of the contact. Moreover, you should decide when and how would you like to have a contact. Communication is the best solution for almost all problems. There are many ways to get infected with HIV, most transmission occurs during sexual intercourse or shared drug use, and the probability of contamination is different for each method. To increase or decrease the risk of transmitting the virus can various factors. For example, if an HIV-infected person is on antiretroviral therapy (meds for HIV), the risk of transmitting the virus to other people may fall by as much as 96%. Remember that condom use reduces the risk of contracting or transmitting HIV by about 80%, on the other hand, the risk of sexual transmission of the virus is also growing. A high level of HIV in the blood, which happens in the initial and late stages of the disease, also increases the chance of transmission. Contracting HIV during unprotected sex is extremely unlikely: on average, only five out of ten of thousands of sex acts with an HIV-infected person leads to the spread of the disease. With unprotected anal sex the risk of contracting more than ten times. Nevertheless, everything depends on your attitude toward the disease.


  • How we keep on seeking love: HIV and dating Posted by Admin on Nov 07, 2018

    how HIV positive people keep on seeking love

    How we keep on seeking love: HIV and dating

    Currently, HIV is far from the death sentence that it was in the 1990s. In those years, having a positive status meant an end to ones dating life. Over the years, however, we have managed to see a reversal in this trend. Many HIV positive people are actually dating, and the stigma that was associated with the status has decreased to the bare minimum.

    There are however some issues when it comes to HIV positive dating .Some states within the United States actually criminalize the act of exposing someone to the risk of contracting HIV. Well, the first step in most cases is disclosing the status. This, however, may be quite hard for some people. It is estimated that there are many HIV positive people but are unaware of their status. In as much as dating may be hard for HIV singles, it is still a possibility and it happens all the time in the current world.

    Dating HIV Positive Singles

    Dating someone who is HIV positive may be one of the toughest tests for your relationship, determining whether you are a perfect match. Most people will actually end relationships after the disclosure of HIV status or will start growing apart. These have been some of the testimonies of HIV positive men or gay who have tried dating.

    Well if you are going to date a man who is HIV positive, you should ensure that you talk about all concerns that you may have and ensure to iron out some other issues you have to ensure that your relationships last. HIV is simply not a reason that holds water when saying you don’t want to be with someone. Also, ensure that you stay protected. Use protection, such as condoms when having sex to ensure that you do not contract the virus.

    HIV Dating Site

    For those who are HIV positive and would like to date others who are also positive, PositiveSingles is a perfect choice where you can find and meet others. All these are for people who are positive and would like to date others who are also positive.

  • Open Relationship Tips For HIV Positive Couple Posted by Admin on Sep 06, 2018

    Open Relationship Tips For HIV Positive Couple

    Open relationships of different kinds have been existing for quite some time now. However, those which serve the purpose and survive the commitment at the same time are very few. An HIV positive couple engaging in an open relationship is as delicate as any other couple. However, there is a higher health risk to the already delicate health state. But how can these relationships maintain a healthy relationship plus that of the body? There are various things HIV couples must consider before plunging into the open relationship status.

    Things you need to consider when an HIV positive couple has an open relationship in order to reduce risk

    Confirm your status

    Sometimes a couple may assume that they are both HIV positive especially if one had the infection at first. However, you don't really know. Unless you have confirmed your statuses in the second lab test, you'll never know. A few too many cases have been reported where one partner had HIV at first but the other didn't and even after they had unprotected sex for some time, it didn't reflect on the other's status.

    Sometimes, you could discover that you were never positive at all. When plunging into the open relationship, you both have to confirm your HIV statuses in order to be on the same page about everything.

    Lay down rules

    Rules are important when making relations with other partners. Because you understand your statuses, you get to decide what is appropriate and what is not. Not having rules can cause problems in open relationships. Each partner doing their own thing leads to complications of both health and also the relationship nature.

    Always use Condoms

    Sometimes you'd have been involved with another couple too many times so you trust them, but condoms should be a must. However, most people ignore protection if they both have HIV. This is really dangerous as there are many risk factors like getting an STD which will cause a superinfection.

    A superinfection is simply an addition of another infection to the HIV infection.  Or it may be the inclusion of another type of HIV virus to your existing one which ruins your health and immunity vastly. An HIV positive couple should ensure that the other partner is using condoms. As one cannot be entirely sure, they can also educate the partner about the dangers of not including condoms in the open relationship.

    Prepare with PrEP

    PrEP is a pre-treatment which upon taking and following its treatment measures, you have less risk of infection in case exposed to another HIV virus. This will prevent superinfection through HIV but it is also important to note that it isn’t a remedy for contracting other STIs. Therefore, other risk reduction measures shroud be followed.

    Limit your partners

    HIV positive couple open relationships should be carried delicately and this is why you should limit partners. Set you partners limit when you lay out the rules because of the more the partners, the more the risk of getting infected or infecting the partner with STD. You can maintain relations with your first other partners so you can set up meetings with them mostly in order to avoid spreading of any significant infection.

    This is also one of the best remedies of HIV couple jealousy. Too much freedom results in confusion as you may meet some people whom you may think you have a connection with. This will result in the loss of support with your current partner which is a great risk of ruining it all.

    Decide less risky sex

    When HIV couples in an open relationship, there are many less risky sex habits. This could include preferring oral sex and other less risky forms of sex in order to reduce the risk of infecting each other. It is important to note that this reduces the risks but doesn’t prevent them necessarily.

    Talk with the partners in the open relationship

    This is a step many partners ignore but it is extremely important. When you both explain to each other what is safe and what isn’t, the other partners will be able to understand the way the whole relationship will work. However, without doing that, you may tend to disagree due to their different understanding of what you want. Being on the same page with people you’ll be having an open relationship with is really important.

    Bottom Line

    A HIV positive couple which wants to be involved in open relationships has to be extremely careful. Communication of every single detail is paramount for laying out every concern. A successful open relationship is ensured by communication and trust.




  • Tips for HIV positive couple: Regain passion by sharing your fantasy about your partner Posted by Admin on Aug 29, 2018

    Tips for HIV positive couple: Regain passion by sharing your fantasy about your partner

    A pair of HIV couple tends to lose their sexual drive due to many factors including the HIV infection. Passion could be waning and your sex diminishing with time. The honeymoon effect is long gone and all that is remaining is two loving yet distanced partners. However, it doesn’t have to be that way. You can go from a passionless phase to exploding sparks of desire for your partner. This is by use of this tactic of sharing your sexual fantasy with your partner. Exploring your dyadic fantasies could be the solution for your fading relationship.

    HIV personals benefit from a great deal from sharing sexual fantasies with each other. It has been proven to be effective among the couples without compromising the emotional distance that’s between them. This way, even the most faded passion can be reignited. For this to happen, the HIV couple has to be ready to face their sexual fantasies and share them without being ashamed. This brings me to;

    Why you can’t share your fantasies with your partner

    -You could be clueless about your sexual fantasies

    -You could be ashamed of your fantasies

    -You think your partner will judge you for it

    These three reasons why you haven’t yet started exploring your sexual fantasies will be ruining your HIV sex more than you know it. These reasons have to be shattered so you can relate to your partner more to enhance a sexually fulfilling relationship.

    How to identify your sexual fantasy

    Think about it. What happens when you constantly think about sex? You obviously imagine what could happen if this, if that. If you haven’t exercised your mind to think about it, no ideas will come. Start thinking about sex for the whole day and imagine what you’ll like to do when you are your most naughty self. What would you like your partner to do for you, to you? Think about it harder, how does it make you feel? Do you feel the slightest arousal? If yes. That’s probably your sexual fantasy.

    To some of you, this doesn’t come easily. You try lighting candles and imagining but nothing happens. However, this shouldn’t bother you. Provided you are trying to get it right, it’ll eventually come to you. Your sexual fantasy will pop up spontaneously even when you are walking in the streets and that’s when you know what to do. Share it with your partner. That takes me to the second fantasy blocker.

    How to stop judging your fantasies

    No matter how crazy your sexual fantasies are, they are yours. In fact, they might not be crazy at all. If you get to know other’s fantasies, you’ll be amazed. The best part is accepting them, accepting that you have needs. This part is not entirely easy as experiences could tarnish your sexual self-love and that’s ok. But give yourself a chance. A chance to be alive again. And hopefully, a chance to make your partner happier.

    How to stop presuming your partner's judgment

    Many HIV personals have sexual desires hidden deep down with the fear of what the other partner would think about them. They would feel afraid of bringing the idea up in case they'll be rejected. However, you could give your partner the benefit of doubt because if they love you, they’ll embrace anything that could make you happy. This is also great as HIV sex should be grounded with one partner. However, when you pull back and fret with an unfulfilled sexual fantasy, you’ll be denying yourself the fun you need and also your window of sex drive ever rebuilding again could be closing. And if it does whilst you could have done something, it’ll be your fault.


    Research shows that dyadic fantasy sharing has mended lost passion and restored the connection between HIV personals. It has also mended dysfunctional relationships through trust and sharing of the deepest crazy thoughts. For any HIV couple, this tip would help in reigniting the constant loss of sexual drive. Facing your sexual fantasies together is sharing your hearts.