Dating a partner with Herpes: be loyal and honest
Being in a relationship with someone infected with herpes can be of a challenge. It is only for the other partner to decide if he/she can live with the idea of it or not. A major problem is when a couple decides to take the relation on to another level and introduce sex in it. A good thing is to let the partner know about your condition before sex. In a dilemma of the disease, you should give your partner a lot of encouragement and hope in life. You should ensure your affected couple gets treatment before it gets worse. The couple also should be educated on the herpes basic knowledge. If in case of a sexual contact protective should be used even though it won’t stop the whole virus. It should not be the one of a stepping stone on the journey of true love.
Dating with HSV 2: happier & sexier
The fact that you know you are affected by the virus it should not stop you from being in a happy relationship with someone you love. The best thing is to date someone and let the love come first. Let someone describe you from the love you offer. Since there is no way kissing or cuddling or just sleep with someone infected can ever pass the HSV 2. Then when you have settled and you want to begin a sexual relationship, now would be the right time to be open and let your partner know about your conditions.
A good couple will discuss the issue. Decide on what is best; if it is to break up or keep the partner and begin treatment of which is possible. A doubt of rejection also should be considered. Maybe the partner has no knowledge about the disease and may run away from the infected. There will always be someone who will be ready to accept, take you with the condition and willingly support you throughout the dilemma for the infection will never define what your virtues stand for.
The talk: we all get rejected for all reasons
Dating and herpes are two parallel experiences in life. A great population of the world is infected with the infection but they are still on the field of dating. It is not that they partner knows or a small percent of couples know all about of their spouses' condition. It is not a crime or insecure to be in a relationship with someone having the virus. The infection should not be one of the judgments between you and someone you truly love. You can take in the infected partner and be a companion for the difficulties knocking on the door. Although it may be difficult, love is what should be above everything.
The big percentage will go to rejection. Fear of being affected will be the excuse. Many will define the virus as past life of the infected.
Bad morale and not being loyal will be one of the reasons one will walk away. But it may never be about the moral of someone or virtues. When a small kid is kissed by an infected parent having soars in the mouth is likely to be infected making no bad moral displayed by the innocent child. Most relationship affected by herpes never seems to last because of the doubt. At a point where no talk is implemented, separation always happens with fingers straight pointed at the infection. Being loyal and always honest to your partner will always save a future of the love you have.