Went on 3 dates.... Met 2 of the best guys.... Now decisions?
The first one was Aquarius so obviously we were so alike and had the same interests and goals in life, but he wasnt my type. The other 2 were fun, easy to get along with and made me laugh so much!! I want to see where life takes me. Hopefully something good comes out of this.
I am happy to report that I met someone wonderful on your site. I was a member for over a year. I chatted with several people over the course of the year, many moving to email, phone, and texting. I met a few people in person and went on some dates, but I never found anyone who I clicked with immediately. I am a single mom to two kids, and was not going to settle or overlook red flags. In my profile I tried to maintain that I was down to earth and more of a tomboy, looking for a best friends as lovers type of relationship. I was looking for something long-term.
I met my "match" and within 2 days we had exchanged numbers and were texting. We clicked immediately. He was looking for the same things, and had a similar "list" of qualities he wanted in a partner/relationship. He commented on how much he liked my profile and how I seemed approachable and low-key in my photos (Since I was wearing hoodies in most of them). We had a similar communication styles and were the same MBT, so we understood each other's personalities right from the start. It was also easy to talk about the shame associated with having HSV, and we shared our experiences in dating and the depression that followed the diagnosis. It is so nice that it's a NON-issue for us! We spoke on the phone within days and we both admitted that this was something "different, unique, and special". I kid you not I think I fell in love with him in the first week. No joke. We talked every day, did facetime, etc. I think talking via Facetime over the 2 weeks prior to meeting really helped! This has never happened to me before. I am 40 years old! And there are no red flags. We are both really honest with each other (no filters). I think having the HSV helps us both with being open and trusting. He lives about 8 hours away, so we planned our first weekend together for 2 weeks after our initial contact on-line. It was convenience because my kids would be gone. I picked him up from the airport and we went hiking for 3 days in a row. We clicked like old friends and have been inseparable ever since. We could totally be ourselves around each other. It was super easy and we were really comfortable. He just spent the last 5 days with me and my kids (who love him!) on his second trip here. And he is coming again for a week over Thanksgiving, while I plan to visit his family in Idaho over the holidays. There are no plans for marriage yet, but perhaps in the future someday. We have both been married before when we were young, so we are not going to jump into anything fast. He has put in a request with his company for a transfer to my area in early 2018. We know it seems fast and crazy, but it just feels right! It sounds super cheesy, but he has all the qualities I have been searching for in a life partner and I feel really lucky. He has said that same to me.
I will forever be grateful for this site in allowing people with STDs to meet in a safe, non-judgmental place. Both my partner and I have shared that we felt our dating lives were over and had accepted that we might spend the rest of our lives alone. I was okay with that, but still kept my profile up and communicated with people, never giving up hope. I am really happy that I responded to his message. Quality erased the distance between us and we are both super happy and in love!!
I like the forums and discussions on your site. I have made a few lifelong friends on your site as well.
We started talking on a tuesday...I went to go see him on the Saturday...by sunday he asked me ti kove in with him. Our relationship took off in a matter of days. He's moving in with me and we are already planning the fun and stress free life ahead of us.
After one day of talking and texting each other’s phone we decided that we have so much chemistry and we should meet . We met up at roosters and the rest is history.
There is a plan for marriage and a family in the future . I thought my life was over after my diagnosis and this site gave me hope and a normal life back . Thank you
We met on Positive Singles and just clicked. I have to admit that at first I didn't think too much of this site or even think much would come our conversation--he was the first profile I saw/liked/matched with. But after short conversation he asked to call me and we ended up talking on the phone for 2.5 hours. We just clicked! We then had long phone calls and facetimes every night until we met in person one week later. It was perfect. Basically love at first sight. I have never found someone that understands me, accepts me, gets me, cares for me, clicks with me, and loves me like he does. It's funny how one of the worst things to happen in my life resulted in me finding this site and then finding one of the best things to happen in my life!
I talked with someone who was a lot like me. Immediately i adored her. She is amazing we clicked and it just worked. I couldnt be happier at all with the outcome. We went out and immediately we knew that this was going to work. We were honest with each other talked about our wants goals and dreams and it just fell into place. Just when we were both ready to give up there we were for each other. It isnt complicated it just fell into place.
I became a member in late July of 2017 with the positive attitude that o would finally meeting soulmate here this time..It was almost three months without any dates.At that point I figured I'm half way through my subscription without local connections..I basically was giving up.. That is when this beautiful woman tried and tried to reach out to me but couldn't because she wasn't a paying member..This Women purchase a one month subscription just message me..It was a very special introduction with her..She had everything written in her profile that I was searching for..She read my profile and I was exactly what she was looking for.At this point her and I are messaging back and forth.I still hadn't seen her picture.. When I asked she was happy to send a private picture to me.. Something magical and spiritual happend inside of me when I saw her eyes looking at me.. Honestly it was like Love at first sight.Im a man of old fashioned values and I won't look at or talk to another woman while her and I are working on building something beautiful..She Very well my be that only one who has been selected for me for my life partner.. Thank you for making this p.s.dating site so much easier to connect with similar singles of the opposite sex.. Sincerely D & M..;)
We met in the beginning of August 2017, for me it was like another date with dinner and good conversation and I thought that I would never hear from him again, I didn't feel any attraction for him whatsoever, for him as he recently told me, since we live 2 hours away, but he came to my city, he drove back home thinking that I was going to be his next girlfriend, after that first meeting he kept on asking me out every weekend, now 2 months later we are totally in love, we don't want to be apart from each other, and we had spent every weekend together, we feel like teenagers in love
We are totally committed to each other, working in making this better each day, we are experiencing amazing connection, as we were soul mates, we have so many things in common and some differences, and both equally brings us together day by day.
I had let my subscription lapse, totally forgot about my account and two years later he found my profile. We spent two weeks sending long emails daily, then decided to meet. We met on his birthday and we've been on fire ever since. I'm gonna keep him.
I met the love of my life. It took me awhile to find her but I was successful in meeting her. She's from Canada and we have so much in common. Although, we are almost 900 miles apart, we face time a lot and look for cheap flights to come visit one another.
Thank you for refunding my account... The reason why I cancelled my membership is because I met someone here on Positive Singles! We're both excited to have a future together without shame and full of love and adventure! wish us luck and thank you for allowing this opportunity for us to find love
Just when I was beginning to lose faith, I found real love and true compatibility on the Positive Singles website after four years and 40 first dates. It was a long and time consuming journey, but worth every minute. I am now united with the love of my life. Do not give up or settle for less than what you seek in a life partner.