Paul and I were both fairly new to the site. He'd joined the site in late March, and I joined the site mid April. I didn't actually use the site much until April 25th. I sent several winks, and one was to Paul. I met several people from the site, but never heard from Paul.
On May 20th, I winked at him again, not totally remembering I'd already sent him one a month prior. After cleaning up emails, I realized I'd already winked at him, so I sent an email that said "oops". I had one guy kinda creeping me out because he'd send me winks a lot, and I never once responded. So my email to Paul stated I'd just realized that I'd already winked at him, and guess he wasn't interested, and wished him luck.
On May 24th, he replied to my email, apologizing for the delay and explaining he had to take care of some things. He later explained that he'd been in communication with a woman in Kansas City, and wanted to see how it went with her before he started communicating with someone else. He'd just met her, and there wasn't chemistry. We texted and talked that day, and he asked about meeting before he left town on Fri for the holiday weekend.
He asked me to chose the spot since he just moved here in late Jan. So I chose the Boathouse at Creve Coeur Park. We ate outside on the patio overlooking the lake. When we were discussing our weekend plans, it came up that I had a date planned for Fri night, with another guy from the site that I'd been communicating with for over a week, but he'd been out of town. We people watched, and talked and left hours later. We then drove over to the big lake and went for a romantic walk as the sun was setting. We had a magical moonlight kiss, and proceeded to make-out under the stars. We ended up at my place. He spent the night, and left for work the next morning. He called me late morning to ask if I wanted to come over and be bored watching him pack and do laundry as he was leaving that afternoon for the long weekend.
I went to his place, met his neighbor, and had a great time just hanging out. I knew then that I wouldn't be going on my date that night with the other guy. I stayed at Paul's place until he had to leave for the airport. We talked and texted all weekend, and we've been inseparable ever since. We feel so lucky to have found each other so quickly and to be so perfectly suited for one another. We're still a very new romance, but so far, so DAMN GOOD! We haven't spent a night alone since we've met, unless one of us is traveling. We have keys to one another's place, and we've already met some of our family members. We've also had our first weekend away together. I joke that we skipped the awkward dating and went straight into a beautiful relationship. We run errands together, help one another with chores, and basically live together, even though we don't!
We both were separated when we met (Paul's divorce became final June 3rd), and I know our situation made some people nervous. We understood one another so well, because we were both going through the same thing.
Thank you for being a part of us finding each other.
The worst thing that could have happened to me turned out to be the best thing that could have happened. Something good came out of something bad. I found my soulmate on Positive Singles. Had I not become a member in 2009, I wouldn't be the happiest married woman around. With or without HSV-2, this guy was the one I've been looking for my whole life. Had I not contracted this virus, I would have never ever met him. It's blessing in disguise. We were both honest with each other on our profiles, because we both had HSV-2, we never really ever talked or have to mention it again and concentrated on our mutual chemistry instead. We met and got engaged two later. We got married one and one-half years later at 50 years old! We just celebrated our 5th wedding anniversary.
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Bob and I met on positive singles on April 24, 2016. We have been dating since and last weekend we decided to become partners and monogamous. We love each other and want to spend the rest of our lives together. I can't thank this site enough for helping me find love again.
We are both from the same small town but didn't know each other then. We met at Starbucks for our first meeting, then went axe throwing. Now it's six months later and we are madly in love. PS site took the task of "the talk" out of the equation and allowed us to get to know each other without the cloud. Thanks for introducing us and we look forward to the rest of our lives as a family.
Two lost souls, newly diagnosed. It started with a simple caring word to reach out and to let him know that he was not alone in this. One day turned into one week. One week turned into one month. The more we talked the more we bonded. Just returned from a five day excursion in order to see if the connection is real. Yes indeed, it was and still is. We're moving forward and we're not letting anything stop us. Chocolate and I, are made for each other.
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