Dear Positive Singles,
I have been on your site now for almost a year. I have exchanged emails with a few cool women and I have had some good conversations.
But....I want you to know....that the power of the "wink" is the BOMB!!!
I sent a wink to a young lady who was the same status as me and BAM! Not only did I get a wink back! but a cell and home phone number!!
I was in stark amazement!! I called her after a day and we spent an average of 5 to 6 hours on the phone each night talking. We had so much in common, she was very articulate, intelligent, and matched my spiritual values of a women.
After a week of talking, she booked a flight from New York to spend the weekend with me in North Carolina!! I couldn't believe a Nigga like me could be so lucky!!
I went to pick her up at the Airport and I immediately know who she was based on our conversations. As I hugged her for the first time, I could feel her inner beauty just radiating from her body.
We immediately left the Airport and went out on the town with one of my friends from College. We had a great time and hung out until 12.
The following day we talked and she hooked a brotha up with some P-Diddy(You know, the stuff that makes us 40 somethings get their grove on).
She then schemed on a brotha with her shy and sexy smile. I couldn't resist her touch and we snuggled and embraced the whole day.
The next day, I took her to work with me and put my babygirl up for display for the Hater's to have something more to hate on.
We spent the later part of the afternoon snuggling until it was time for her flight to leave. We rushed to the Airport thinking she was going to miss her flight, but.....it got delayed 20 extra minutes. The exact time we spent snuggling.....Isn't GOD good!!!
We have only known each other for less than 3 weeks and we are already in love with each other!!
I have found someone who is genuine and ultra cool.
Many thanks to Positive Singles. I found my true love by being very selective in my search and then staying present to all of my feelings and intuition when relating to the ladies I contacted. Being honest about what I cannot live with and without was very important. Being able to end things when I discovered that an ideal match was not at hand was of vital importance.
Regarding my relationship with Woody38, I am very pleased with our open, honest communication and our mutual respect and integrity. Those are the things I cherish the most. Our organic timing was also perfect. We are on similar spiritual paths that intersect and twine harmoniously because of our life experiences,our efforts to heal past wounds and embrace what is. Cited authors: Eckhart Tolle and Byron Katie. We owe them much.
Hoping that you will follow your heart and choose wisely,
When preparation meets opportunity luck happens. I was ready for my love and he me. I'd logged on to this site to "just" check it out and never even thought I'd meet anyone. After a couple of weeks I received a message from Michael and we have not stopped seeing each other and respecting each other. He's a love, a kind soul, supportive and generous. I am so happy! While he worked on himself physically, mentally and spiritually over the last year and a half, I was doing the same. The Universe saw to it that we met and it's all so good! Special thanks to my friend Larry for telling me about this site. And even more special thanks to Michael for his unconditional love. I couldn't be luckier.
i was only a member for about two weeks, then i started talking to a guy in arkanas. i told myself that i will not do a long distance relationship but WOW! i really fell for this guy. well talk on the phone and the computer all the time. i want to thank you for this site, i do have a life . because i'm starting over with this wonderful man!
It never took long for me to use your great site to find a wonderful woman, we are so much alike, it's scary.........in a good way! Your site is easy to use and I reccommend it to anyone who is trying to find their own success story....get out & start living & have some fun. Herpes is the requirement for this club, so get over it, relax & enjoy life!
I was very fortunate to meet some really nice people, especially one of them. In today???s age, it can be very challenging to meet someone with good values, morals, and integrity. Through this site, I met just that person. I feel I have been searching for him nearly all my life and now I found him. The attraction was immediate. Even though there was a strong physical attraction, I was more attracted to his mind and soul. The relationship is at its early stages and with time, who knows what might happen. It has been very important to him to get to know me as a person first, as well as me wanting to know him better. At times, this can be difficult. When I am around him, my body temperature goes up a couple of levels. He is the perfect gentleman and has the utmost respect for me. He brings out the emotions I have had bottled up for many years. It really scares me. At the same time, I am looking forward to what the future brings. My greatest hope is our two souls blend as one. So, if any of you are reading this, please say a prayer for us. He is very important to me.
Well, I'm deleting my profile because I may have found Mr. Right on this site. Having HSV2 wasn't the best thing that has ever happened to me, but if I hadn't contracted it, I wouldn't have met the wonderful person that I'm now involved with. There is always a bright side to everything. He's probably everything I could have wished for in a partner: kind, considerate, fun, a great sense of humour, great looking.... I could go on. This website made it possible for me to meet this great guy, and who knows, he may very well be Mr. Right. I have a hunch that he may be.
The future is looking very bright at the moment, and I wish the same to anyone who is truly looking for their Mr. or Ms. Right.
This is the best site for people with similar problems to meet and find love. The profile layouts are by far the best and most informative. One thing I have found is not everyone here is searching for A soul mate or date. Some are newly diagnosed just wanting advise to ease back into the dating sceen. Thanks,there's two less lonely people in the world..... P.S.#1....:)
I met Jesse on my birthday, actually. We started e-mailing for a month, and just by coincidence we had our first phone conversation one month to the day from when we started e-mailing. As we got to know each other better, it became apparent that while there was a certain amount of chemistry, I had, perhaps more importantly, made a friend. Suddenly it didn't feel like so much of a disease to find someone else out there who was smart and successful and ambitious, who also had H. It's funny, too, how often we do not talk about our situation, but rather talk about life and who we are, not what we have. Most of the time I forget we share that in common, despite the fact it brought us together. There's so much more to him, to all of us, than what we've been burdened with. It's nice to have that reminder in the form of a human being. With the unfortunate state of our economy and the price of everything going up, traveling to meet for the first time has not been an option. The distance is slightly brutal, Illinois to South Carolina. I don't feel like that will impede on the bond we've formed already though, despite not meeting in person. Yet. =) It's funny to think that I've never seen him face to face, because when he calls, we talk like old friends, and I feel like I've known him for years as opposed to a few months. So to the girls, hang on, because whatever has brought you to this site doesn't mean you have to settle. I believe there are more guys out there like Jesse that want to find a girl on here for all the right reasons. And guys, we live in a fast-paced world, but there are girls out there still looking for a man who believes they're worth the wait, who are courteous and respectful.
I got my woman on this site, and i think I've got my future love,and second half. I'm so happy that i didn't waste my time,all this time with positivesingles.com. I signed up as a gold member in May, and at the beginning of July I happened to get some one from Toronto,On. Canada, and to really make things better, we happen to be originally coming from the same African country. And to me, that was a big plus to our relationship. We are determined to make sure this relationship work,since we're all tired of being single' and looking for partners. We're now thinking of living together,and and think of a long term relationship. Thank you positive singles...thank you!! I personally don't see any mistake in the services rendered. I hope more people get what they're looking for like me.
In a few months I have been active on the site, I have found the love of my life. We both have genital herpes but we have so much more in common. Just because we have STD's doesnt mean we are different than anyone else who wants to be loved & respected. He is the guy I dreamed of & without this website, I would have never found him. I am so happy. Thank You Positive Singles!
I have been a free member, and I have enjoyed my time being a member (FREE) but I
have met someone from this very site and I feel that this is the person for me at
this point in my life, I have found this person to be so very nice and your website:
POSITIVE SINGLES has brought this person into my life as for now, I feel this person
is the right person that has giving me self worth again, and has showed me that I'm
still very human even though I have HIV ; and from the bottom of my heart and the
depth of my very soul, I say thank-you for having such an amazing website for the
people that REALLY DO NEED TO KNOW "That they do MATTER" as I've been HIV for about
12 years now, and I believe your website has helped to bring this special someone
into my life, and from my end of the world I'll never stop saying thank you
Just wanted to post our 'SUCCESS STORY' on positivesingles.com. We chatted briefly between December & January of 2008, lost touch a bit, and talked again in the beginning of February. After a few hit & misses, I emailed him and asked for his number. We talked the next day over the phone, then sent a few text messages and such. I knew after speaking to him the first time that he was someone I was very interesed in, and I asked him to come meet me. Since the day we met(February 23, 2008) we have been inseperable. We've been apart overnight only a handful of times since, and are talking very seriously about our future together...I honestly couldn't be happier. Thank you again for having this site online, I would never have met the love of my life otherwise! Will keep you posted! :o)
I had joined the site due to being infected with herpes in 2005 and not wanting to have to go through the horror of infecting someone that didn't have the virus. I had not been informed prior to being intimate with a man I was dating and would feel it irresponsible to not inform a potential partner. Being on PosSing allows that one barrier to be removed. I joined the site for dating purposes though came to enjoy the blogs and interaction that provided support and encouragement.
I saw Mac*** on August 1, 2006. I sent him a wink. He was in Iraq at the time, serving in the Army and did not respond until August 8, 2006. We came to be consistent 'pen pals' and instant messaging through AIM sharing things with each other that hadn't been shared before and we developed a close friendship. I feel sure that having that space apart allowed us to be open and reveal more. I learned more about myself and had so much awareness and positive change in how I looked at life. It was just a good, supportive, and open friendship. Pat, his real name and I kept in consistent contact and soon expressed a deeper fondness for each other. I felt very blessed and thankful to have been introduced to him through the PosSing site. I came across a warm, genuine, Christian, man of integrity.
We began talking of meeting and if our future would cross paths. We decided it would be better to remain 'just friends' due to stress and transitional time Pat needed to get back into daily living here in the States. Pat is a great soldier and deserves recognition for his service time.
Pat came home in May 2007 and then was stationed in Atlanta, Ga for one year in a Reserve Unit. We made time to meet in person (I was in Jacksonville, FL) before he had to report. We realized that our letters through email did reveal a real person that was reflected genuinely and honestly. That time of meeting opened up a new depth of friendship and we decided to begin a relationship a few months later. While Pat was in Atlanta, GA we would travel the short five to six hours(depending on who was driving) to spend time with each other. Our families heard so much talk about the 'other' we made time in March of this year for them to meet the 'other'. We knew we were headed towards a life together and decided to be married this August 2008 in Florida. Pat is almost out of the Army and working a civilian job.
I believe that the emails through Pos Sing and instant messaging allowed us to be able to get to know each other that dating in person can hurry. Pat treated me respectfully and was never vulgar or rude which was a great indicator of integrity, respect, and genuineness of wanting to know me as a person...the relationship and love is a cherished bonus.
This is a continuation of our first "Success Story" posting....My Honey and I got married the first part of June '08, a little over one year after meeting on this site. Keep your head up and never accept less than what you really want. Respect yourself, protect yourself....
Thank you for your site, I have found my true love and i am ready to start my life with her. I never thought I would find my true love after the gift was given to me but thanks to your site. You have shown me that it can be done.
Thank you again!!!
I believe I have found someone special that wants more out of life and a relationship. we have chatted online and also on the phone and the first encounter was unbelievable and we have a lot in common. So I'm ending my search and going to focus on what I have in front of me, a real gentleman.
I have found the person I want to spend the rest of my life with. I found her on this web site. I can't thank you enough! At first I wasn't sure about putting my profile on here. I live in a small community. I did and I found everything I've ever wanted in a companion. Your web site is truly the best thing for so many people. Keep on doing what your doing!! Thanks again! As read above I'm impressed with your web site.
Yes, I have been lucky to find a wonderful man on your site. When I first found out I had "The gift," I didn't think I'd ever meet anyone. I actually thought my life was over. Well, I met someone who is truly wonderful thanks to your site. We are in tune in every way. Thank you Postive Singles! you all don't need to do anything. thanks for this site!
Yes I did find someone on your site, I hung in for the last year always believing my perfect match was out there. Met some nice people along the way and wish all them the best. My advice is to stay upbeat and positive(no pun intended) enjoy life. Good things do happen! It is fine just the way it is,thank you for giving me an outlet to have the courage to rediscover the real me, i truly feel liberated and educated. thank you michael