When I joined this site, I honestly didn't think anything meaningful would come of it. I just wanted to date, and not be faced with "having the talk" in case the relationship became something of substance. After a few dates that were less than promising, I decided to look at profiles of women that were not within my usual criteria.
Being the typical man, I was looking for convenience (a woman close geographically) and someone who was younger than I. However when I opened up my mind regarding age and city, I finally found the special woman that I love so much.
He is a darling, kind, beautiful woman who loves me sincerely and deeply, and never hides her heart from me. Her gentle, feminine way takes me off guard, just as her striking beauty and expressive eyes draw me in. She has an ease about her that calms my soul, and made me fall in love almost immediately.
She is better than I dared to hope for, and I thank God I found her. We've only been dating for a short time, yet we're making plans to be together. How can you live without a woman that refers to you as Superman?
FORTUNATELY, I HAVE FOUND SOMEONE ON THIS SITE WHO I AM NOW IN A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP WITH. WE ARE PLANNING TO GET MARRIED 2011. I WANT TO THANK POSITIVE SINGLES FOR PROVIDING US WITH SUCH A WEBSITE FOR THOSE WITH MY CONDITION. IT MAKES IT MUCH MORE COMFORTABLE AND EASY TO COMMUNICATE AND SHARE YOUR LIFE WITH.
I connected with Arrows2009 on your site. We chatted constatntly throughout the day through your site then via private email. About three weeks in we met for lunch ... clicked ... and the rest is, as they say "history". We are both golfers, so after our initial lunch, we found meeting on the golf course would be an excellent way to enjoy time with one another without the pressure of any after dinner "expectations". It's been wonderful so far, but it's definitley too early to talk marriage.
Thank you for providing the PositiveSingles site to those of us who have to deal with unfortunate circumstances. Although neither of us discusses our 'situation', both of us feel the relief of not having to worry about exposing others nor do we have to fear the disclosure aspect that must eventually come in a new relationship.
Sincerely ... Cricket49 and Arrows2009
One of the first people I talk to and I could tell that there was something special abuot her. I was nervous but figure what do I have to lose. Next thing you know we talk for hours on end everynightc. I haven't even met her in person yet but I have a good feeling she is the person I have been waiting my whole life to find. We have more in common than I thought was possible!! Can't wait to see what live has in store for us. Thank you for all your help Positive Singles!!
My girlfriend was new to the area and initially contacted me just looking for some companionship, someone to hang out with, an activity partner, etc. She wasn't looking for a relationship. I was. We emailed a couple times, talked a couple times and first met to go hiking in January 2009. We went out two or three times, did some outdoors activities together and soon discovered that we were looking for different things. We then went our separate ways.
I got bored of the dating scene and contacted her again in July 2009, we got together in August 2009, and have been together since. We're outdoorsy people, so we enjoy a lot of outdoor activities together, along with being a couple of geeks--we like to do crossword puzzles together, she'll kick my butt in a game of dominoes, we've played Scrabble a couple times and each won once. I'd like to say we play nicely together.
We've both got pretty busy schedules that sometimes don't mesh, so we make the most of what time we do have together. No marriage plans yet, though I don't see anything happening down the road that would make us not want to see other anymore.
After a few months of being a gold member, I met someone who intrigues me, We has a lot in common with me, and gives me no reason to keep searching at this time. Thanks, positivesingles. We corresponded for about two weeks, and because we were relative close, I could drive in an hour to meet...on a Friday night, we just sat down and had coffee at a Starbucks. take your time... sometimes just being a pen pal can get you through the loneliness... eventually somebody will match up because new people are coming and going all the time on the site...I was a non-member for several months, and then became a gold member so I could interact, and found a person who matches right up with many aspects of my life, enough to cancel my monthly membership and hide my profile (for now) as this is enough for me right now. Thanks for providing this service. Regards, BOO
Doug and I met on Positive Singles back in Sept of 09.We chatted for a few weeks before meeting.When we met as hoakie as the saying goes it was love at first site.We have discussed marriage but both agree theres time and we want to take our time,not to rush into anything.Right now we enjoy each others company and love holding hands,long talks and playing kissy face.When we decide to marry and the time frame I will write back w/a more in depth detailed success letter.Thank-you Positive Singles...With-out you there would not be any us!!!! Sincerely:Cynthia A.Inman
I found her! To be honest I found the girl of my dreams in about 3 weeks, though we have yet to meet. Opposing ends of the country, our current relationship has grown over the exchange of text messages and lengthy phone calls. We have spoken approximately 2-5 hours a day. We have made plans to fly and meet each other for the first time in December.
Marriage? I'm open to the option if we fully develop the elements of a true relationship.
The last day of my gold membership I looked thru profiles and found a guy that I thought fit all the requirements I was searching for. Boy did I find the right guy. I have never met anyone so compatable to me. I have always felt I was an outsider because of how I view things and my standards. Well this guy meets them all and then some. I decided to fly him up for my birthday party. Could have been a disaster, wasn't. It was like we have known eachother for years. All of my friends really like him. All night I kept getting thumbs up from my friends. My friends are really critical and opinionated. He passed with flying colors. Thank you for having this site for poeple like me and so many others. This site allows us to focus without having to worry about our dirty little secret. It takes all of the pressure off. Thanks again
Here it goes It was march 10 2009 when i winked at him. I first notice his profile picture and his profile and that same day he emailed me and I emailed him back and sent a couple of emails back and forth. Then it was march 15 when I called him and talked for 3hrs straight and the next night we went out and still together ever since.
Thank you Positive Singles. We are in a wonderful relationship now.
I met this wonderful girl from this site and I am so in love with her. This site
made me realize that its not the end of world. I hope that each and every person
takes this site seriously and does not use this site for personal satisfaction.
Thank you Positive Singles.
It took 3 weeks before i met him and I flew to USA to meet him. I am here with him right now.
I have found the man of my dreams, it was truely love at first sight. We have since found out that we have a lot in common, and share the same interests.
I am planning on marrying him.
Thank You for this wonderful site.
In response to your email, I winked to TJ2009 on September 12th and he winked back that same day. We met on September 18th and we got engaged on October 16th. We both knew the night he picked me up on our first date that we were what we have been looking for all of our lives. We live 32 miles apart but manage to see each other 3 or 4 times a week. We both knew that first night that we had hit the jackpot finding each other. Thank you so much for your support site. It has changed my life and I would recommend it to anyone afflicted with STD's. I couldn't have found my happiness without it. I would have never met TJ2009 had it not been for your website. Thank you again.
Hi just responding to your question well i had been trying to find my soul mate for three years and i have finally found him. I was on three sites for positive people and and found my soul mate on poz singles and I live in NC and he lives in GA and I usually am very careful with letting man know were i live so i had taken a five hour trip to GA and if no one believes in love at first site it does exsist i and he is proof we meet on nov. 1 for the first time in person we had been chatting on line then it was time to take the next step
so we did and feel in love. On nov 7 we will be engaged he ask me so we are for now still commuting back and forth but i will be moving over to ga by the new year with god's help god is good we have the same intrest and likes and dislikes witch makes it so much more pleasent he is a good man and im a good woman so even better and yes we will be making plans for marriage soon why waste time if it aint broken why fix it(smile) he makes me feel so speacil in every way i jhave been waiting for my husband for about three yrs and i have finally found him thank you for your site also the only thing i see use could do for your site is go down on your prices so people have a better option to become members if not they will find the free sites to connect on other wise use are good thank you again for your services. God bless to all and may everyone find the one they want to spend the rest of there life with we did. Lots of love.
When I first signed up for this site, I was just looking for friends and support for dealing with HSV2, But what I ended up getting from here was something so much more!!! Within my first couple days here, I was in touch with young man I thought was an amazing person. The more we talked and got to know each other, the more he became much more than a friend and we have been inseperable since the first time we talked. I love him with all my heart and our relationship proves that true love is stronger than anything (accept God)!!!
Everything about the website was great! The person I met sent me a wink based on what he read and we chatted for a little while via email, then moved to phone. He lives in Seattle and me in Portland at the time. He drove down to Portland and we hit it off right away! We laugh all the time, watch football together and enjoy just watching movies together. Its really difficult meeting people in general let alone people with other issues going on. We have been together for 6 months so far, still in two different cities but we spend weekends with each other and everyday on the phone. We
both think that someday I will move there when I am finished getting my degree and he wants to be married and have a family someday. If it were not for this website, I would not have found this person!! He is an amazing wonderful person who I love so much! Also I have recommended your site to some other people who have been found they are in the same situation I was in! Again thank you!
I found someone that is such a wonerful person, smart, gorgeous, and an all around great person. For words of encouragement just be persistant, believe it or not the women that I found didn't even have a picture, I had no clue who she was or what she looked liked but I took a chance and read the profile and then contacted her. much to my surprise she wrote back, and after about 2 weeks of texting, emails and phone calls we finally found time and a place to meet. She was GORGEOUS, things are going well we are coming to find that we have quite a bit in common, and life will take it's course.
Don't Give Up! Read Between the Lines, Life is More than a Picture.
Good Luck to you All,
I found the man of my dreams on here and i couldnt be happier, hes everything i could have every asked for and never thought i could find on here. His love is amazing and the kind you only read about in fairy tales and he truely is my prince charming. Thank you soo much for your services and giving me the ability to meet the man im going to spend the rest of my life with. We will be back on here once were married and be one of your GREATEST success stories. God bless and thanks again.
We corresponded for two days before meeting.
We talked on the phone twice, once around 4pm and then again at 7:30. And we met that night at a Denny's in Hollywood, close to where she lived. We talked for almost 4 hours and made plans to meet the next night for our first date.
Just happy we were able to meet through your 'place'. It's so badly needed - there are sooooooo many people out there with a similar condition, and seem afraid to sign up with this kind of website. In Los Angeles, where I live, there must be easily thousands of single people who have H, and are single & looking ... but they don't seem to want to sign up with a H website like this. But we found our love here, that's really lucky and happy. I sincerely hope you also find your love on this site. That's great. I wish you great good luck, and thank you very much!
We correspond about a week and exchange photos . He emailed me his numbers by Friday so I can call him because he would not be able to comunicate over weekend . So I suprissed him with a call and invited him for drinks
We met last Saterday ,at a Resturant called Maxis. I was calling him with a private numbers because I did not fell comfortable with him having my numbers I must I enjoyed him standing at the door and recognising me from the picture because I did not tell him what I was wearing.We sat that talking till midnight it seems like we know each other mostly we talked about our conditions .
We went on another date ,and yes they are plans for marriage .....
So far we are getting to know each other
Thanks once more for your great work.