This is the first time I joined an online site since my divorce. I picked this site because I was afraid to be rejected. I met F9r160 twenty one days after I was on this site. He emailed me and I reply. We started emailing each other in this site then finally decided to talk on the phone a week later.About two weeks later we decided to meet each other and from then on we are inseparable.He lives 3 hours away but I guess distance is not a factor in love. Every obstacle we overcome brings us closer to each other. It's been a couple of months already and we are still so much in love with each other and hope to spend the rest of our lives together someday. My advice to others is don't give up, love is in the air.
Our relationship is going very well. We liked each other's profiles and from the first email we connected with each other. Talking on the phone was our next step and hour long conversations led us to believe we needed to meet. We spent three long very special days together that sealed in our minds that we had something pretty special. At the moment we are three hours away from each other but take advantage of emails everyday, we talk on the phone at least once a day and planning our next get together. After being on other sites for quite a long time this was the first that the mental and physical connection was not all one sided. We can't imagine not being together and building our relationship to a all new level for both of us.
I can only thank your site for being there for us taking away all the awkward hows and whens to bring up the subject of our issue. That conversation doesn't even exist and the stress that comes from having to have that conversation.
I kept going on this guys profile to check out his pic...he was so cute:) But I did not contact him at first because I thought he lived in Chicago.I finally decided to contact him and found out he was right here in Tennessee.We emailed each other,then chatted on the phone for a bit.Then we decided to meet for dinner.When we sat down to talk I felt totally comfortable,like we had known each other for years.After a couple of months of dating we decided to date exclusively...do the boyfriend/girlfriend thing:)That's the good part...here is the bad part.During this time he ran into some problems...he lost his job:( Like any good friend I helped him out through those tough times.He was planning on opening a business,so he had some money put away for that.And I watched this man singlehandedly put together his own barbershop,with very little resources.It was amazing to watch.And it let me see what type of person he was under pressure.He is such a wonderful young man and we have talked about our future together...which seems pretty bright to me:)We have so much in common and I have already learned so much from him,he brings out the best in me.He makes me feel so good, so happy...so complete.He is everything that I have ever wanted in a man:)
I found the Positive Singles web site through a Google search of STD dating sites.
I logged on as a guest, and started to search for a match. I had a specific type of woman in mind, that I would consider dating. I sent winks to the women that met my criteria. I immediately received a wink from someone else, who found my profile in her search. I was not a Member, so I could not see all of her information, nor could I contact her first. I joined the site so I could use the search more efficiently. I was surprised to see that the Woman who contacted me met my criteria. I had several women contact me, but many of them weren't a healthy match for me. The woman who did contact me, turned out to be the exact match I was looking for. I was looking for height, body type, age, what they are living with, location, and most of all personality. I must have done the right thing, at the right time, for a change, to have my date call me, and actually be willing to meet, and start a relationship. I don't keep a number of women in my life, because i'm not so good at remembering mulitpile names. We are going to see where this leads the two of us. If for some reason it doesn't workout between us, I'm sure we both will be back to seek a mate on the Positive Singles site.
Not much to say here other than things couldn't have worked out better. Just because you have to modify your dating style a little doesn't mean that you have to compromise what you expect from a relationship or from a partner. I've been fortunate enough to come across someone that I wouldn't have met outside of this site.
He just emailed me to tell me that how adorable he thought I was and how he really liked my profile and that he wanted to meet me, so I decided to give him a chance. He only lives 20 minutes away from me and were a lot alike and just really hit it off. He asked to be his girlfriend on valentine day and we've been so happy ever since.
It's a lot easier to be comfortable with a relationship when you both have the same STD. just like most people, we were depressed when we found out we had herpes. I felt useless and thought now I'll never find someone, but it turns out I found the most amazing person!
Thanks to your website.
I have been on this site for longer than most and made friends. I can honestly say that
I have found my best friend. he is the man i haven't known long but feel like
I've known all my life. I can't describe it, he is hopefully the end of my
old chapter and the beginning of all my new ones. I'm crazy about him!
So thank you positive singles. my faith has been restored in men and I'm
happier than I've ever been. oh! And I'm relocating! ya! Best wishes to
everyone on the site. if you get discouraged, just know that you will
find what you are looking for.
I was just about to cancel my subscription because I met someone through this site and am doing well with him. Its going very well so far, we talk every night and I go to see him on the weekends, and so far he seems great, I haven't been this happy in a long time. I want to say thanks for making this possible, since its so hard dating with what I am living with.
We hit it off right from the start, he called and we got along so well. We both have the same passion which is music and that makes it that much better!! I guess we will see where it goes from here on but at the moment its amazing. Thanks again!!
There is not too much to tell, I met a guy that lives really close to me and we get along really great. I doubt we would have ever met if this site wasn't available. The fact that we don't have to have the uncomfortable "H" talk is awesome! That has always been a stressful part of my relationships in the past so this time around, I feel relieved and at ease. It is also great that we can talk about it openly and relate to each other. I think it is so wonderful that there is a site like this out there! Thank you!!!
I really thought after i found about my HSV that life was pretty much over for me. I would never have anything more than a one night stand or even think about finding someone that would be ok with me having it. I was determined that i would be alone forever. Then after a few misses from this site I found my match! He is 100% my soul mate. We are like the same exact person in 2 diffrent bodies. We met last july...and as of Last Valentine's Day, we are engaged. (got my ring and everything) My wedding is in November. We would never have met with out your site. Even though we are both from the Houston area, we were from diffrent sides. It is so large down here that no one from east side EVER sees anyone from the west side. Same thing for North and south, like we were. We moved to the middle, so that fixed the distance problem. Everything is more perfect for me now then it was before i had this crap. I just can't say thank you enough!!
I met the man I will be spending the rest of my life with!! I can't believe that after 16 years of searching and being lonley...It was so easy! I never entertained the thought of online dating but I was desperate LOL... and what a great way to meet someone and let them know up front that I was + and knew they could relate to me. We met after a couple of weeks and the rest as they say is hisory baby. Good luck and prayers to all who are sincerely seeking there soul mate. I wish you all the best! We are perfect for each other...and yes... I found my true soul mate! -Suzie
I have always been attracted to asian women. You have specific searches where I was able to check out all the asian women in my area. Fortunatly the one I was attracted to and contacted liked me as well.
We spent the first week sending Emails through your site and then started talking on the phone. I have gone to visit a couple of times and we are already in love. It was very helpfull that we can list what issues we each have so that is just out of the way right off.
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Thanks so much positive singles. I met a Man that I swear God must have made lightening strike for him to come into my life he is such a Blessing. Our first date was great and I thought we were really gonna just be friends then it all turned around.We are always talking like we can not get enough of each other. Babe you are a real God sent and I look forward to spending the rest of my life growing in love with you.When I see you I see me and I know the feeling is mutual. You are my King.Love your Queen.
I felt very isolated after my diagnosis in August 2008. I joined Positive Singles on December 19th with hopes of finding someone who understood the situation I was in and start a friendship. I winked at Becarad on New Year's Day and was so excited when he winked back a week or so later. We email almost daily and he finally gave me his phone number when I decided to call him. We chatted on phone almost every night for 3 or 4 hours at a time. We text messaged each other also during throughout the day. We found out that we have similar personalities and well I think we fell in love with each other before we finally met two months or so later. He lives approximately 80 miles from me. He drove down to my condo and we were like 14 year olds. So nervous and excited. He was so much more handsome in person. We kissed and hugged. It felt so natural to us. We haven't been able to let each other lips go. He travels across the country and I won't see him but once every 6 weeks or so, but we maintain contact on a daily basis. He already agreed to move in with me. I think that I finally met the man who compliments my being perfectly. We are excited about our future together. It happens so quick. Positive Singles is definitely the site to visit if you are diagnosed with STD. There's a lot of interesting and fine persons on this site. Keep looking and searching and wink at anyone who has potential to become a friend. You never know what could develop. Your hearts will lead you. Good Luck and thank you Positive Singles for all the opportunities of happiness and joy you have brought to so many couples.
I have always wanted to find my soul mate, and I finally have through positivesingles.com. First there was a wink and then an email and then a phone call. Then several more calls.
Within the first week I had a flight booked to go meet him... it was 30 long days before we would actually meet.
I knew no matter what he looked liked I allready liked him. We had so much in common, we just fit.
I am now planning another trip and also planning our future.
Yes I found someone on your site. We met in November of 2008. Since then we talked everyday, almost all day. I am in the military and stationed in Iraq right now. When I went on leave, we finally met in person and a week later we got married. Your site has helped out alot. This would have not been possible if it werent for the site. There are people all over the world dealing with the same issues and you bring them together. My husband is from my home town, so that makes things even better. He will be moving to Hawaii with me when I return from Iraq. But until then we communicate constently and appreciate each other. I have been on the site for 4 years and gave up several times. But I finally found the one and just want everyone to know that you just have to be patient and know exactly what you are looking for. Thank you so much for your help.
Thank you. The relationship is going pretty good with us. We are talking about moving in together pretty soon and starting a family. Well I had sent him a wink and he respond so we started talking in messages on the site and we felt a connection. We started talking on the phone and hit it off. I wanna thank you guys for starting a website like this. Because when I found out that I had herpes I really didn't think I would have chance to be in another relationship.
After a short time on this site, and meeting some good friends, I finally find the woman of my dreams. She fulfill every dream and desires I ever had. For those of you who are seeking a partner, take your time, it will happen. All the best and good luck with your search.
I met a lot of great men on your site right away when I joined last summer. I really fell for Justin (hellolv07) and luckily, he fell for me too. It was fireworks from the start. We have been inseparable for about 8 months now. We have been living together for most of that time (yes, we moved very fast!). We actually just moved into a new place together this past weekend. It is much bigger than both of our old places. We are talking about marriage so that is exciting. I could see us having kids together some day. It is really wonderful. Thanks for providing such a great site for those of us with certain health concerns to find each other.
We met via e-mail and chatted for a while then we graduated to phone conversations. I was thrilled and excited to meet someone who didn?t think that I was a Leper! We talked about everything and nothing. It was a great match when we got together! The only thing that made me sad about the whole union was distance and our busy schedules. I wanted more and I know that it wasn't possible at this point in each other's lives. He was a great sweet guy and whoever he can click with he would be a great match for. I didn't find love at least not yet but I found a lot of like without a lot of future...I say go for it what d you have to lose! The sky is the limit and the one person that I did meet was real and invigorating!