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After breaking up with my long-term ex-boyfriend (who I knowingly contracted herpes from), I always knew in my heart that the person I was going to end up spending my life with would be positive too. And being 'positive' would actually be a blessing in disguise because it would force me to find someone who was interested in my character, just not for a short, physical fling.
I had been on and off P.S. for about a year as I struggled to gain the confidence to invest enough of myself to it. But eventually, I realised I had nothing to lose and everything to gain by giving this my all - photos showing my face, writing what I truly wanted to...
It wasn't until I added the P.S. app and used the 'Spark' function that I found him. I knew from the moment I saw him that he was who I was looking for. I even felt my heart say 'that's him!' haha. He was the one who I had gone through all this effort to find. I messaged him straight away and it was instant.
It turned out that he was from my hometown (I live in a different city now), knows a mutual friend, enjoys the same music and type of humour. After messaging for 2 months, he's just left after flying up to visit for the weekend. We had the most amazing time together and are now dating! Already, no relationship before this one can compare. I can't foresee the future - but right now, he is the perfect one for me and I can't see how anyone else I meet in this life could ever be a better match for me!
We have a common background in life and are very happy and excited to have met. Likely a wedding in the summer to come.
Thank you from me and VanilleNoisette. Check in on us if you like down the road
I have met someone through Positive Singles that lives on the West Coast and have decided to move out there so that we can be together. I was a Gold Member at the time and he viewed my profile. I sent him an email not really expecting to hear from him since he lived on the West Coast and I lived on the East Coast. However, he did respond by email and eventually I did go out last year for a visit, and we decided to try and make a go of it. I will be moving out there in about three weeks. Hoping it will be the best decision of my life and not the worst! Wishing everyone luck in finding someone.
We started up a conversation with each other even though we live so far from one other, I live on the west coast and he lives on the east coast. We have been talking through text and calling each other and over the past six months have discovered we have everything in common and we can relate to one another in ways no one else has ever related to us in our entire lives. We have plans for our future life together and we are already planning and getting arranged to be together. He decided that he wants to move to the west coast, incidentally he has always wanted to live over here. We both were just as willing as one another to move across the country just to be together. We both know we are meant to be together. I am so blessed to have found such an incredible man. God certainly has an interesting sense of humor, but we know that we are meant to be with one another and I thank god every day because otherwise I would have never met this man. I've never felt so blessed before, I have the most perfect man. Its as if he walked straight out of my dreams.
Well I received a message from him and he had asked how I was doing, of course I said all is well. A few messages later he stated that he was going to the movies and that if i wanted to come he would by my ticket, but no pressure. I agreed to meet him at the movies but I would be about 15 minutes late. I showed up and called him. We have a great connection from the beginning. we watched the movie and after the movies was over, we proceeded to the exit. He walked me to my car and we just talked by the time I checked the time it was three in the morning. The convo was so amazing.
You know, sometimes we can experience days that deflate us as we work though the strong emotions, fears and limitations that come from having an std. Trying to find that happy balance in how to date again and how to have the "conversation" about it was never something I looked forward to.
I was really grateful when I finally found this site and gave it go. I quickly discovered that many people had chosen to make healthier life choices and ultimately become better people as a result of their diagnosis instead of succumbing to it. I found relief in dating openly with no secrets or dreaded conversations that had an unpredictable outcome. It turned out it was really a blessing by forcing me to really learn about myself and to understand what I wanted so I could find the right man for me.
When I thought about who I wanted to share my life with as I created my profile, I had no idea he actually existed. I mean we always hope that when we put out the best intention and step outside of our comfort zone that we'll attract the right person into our lives. I'll be honest, I was really skeptical of online dating actually and felt like I'd have to claw through more masks and facades than I had to by meeting men organically...and I did to an extent for a while. Then, to my surprise and delight it all changed when I got an email that spoke to not just to me, but his words met me at more of a soul level which was intoxicatingly refreshing! There was instantly depth, curiosity and genuine interest which caught my attention. After we exchanged a few light emails, we upgraded to texting and talking. There was so much synchronicity between us it was impossible to ignore. We spoke day and night, and still do. Our passion continues to grow as we learn more about each other and we have started building an incredible solid foundation without any secrets and have had deeper conversations, I believe, as a result. I'm so grateful for this site being available to help connect us because chances are very slim, since we live at a distance from each other, that our paths would have crossed. My hopes are that more people are as lucky as we feel we are. Thank you for having a safe place for people to find each other.
Wishing everyone here success in your search for love :)
This is the second relationship I've found on this site... First one was not the right fit but we had a lot of fun and remain friends...... second time around I found the love of my life! We could not be any happier! Thank you! Don't ever give up on love... it's out there!!!
I met a wonderful man on PS about 3 years ago. we aren't married yet but maybe one day. we live together and are very happy. I am glad there are services out there to help people through these difficult situations.
It something I did not see coming at all. We met on P.S just starting out doing small talk but it soon turned into something more. I gave her my number and we have be talking everyday till that time. We thot is was time to move thing further by dating.
I have found my one and only. She is the most beautiful human being I have ever met. There is not a second that passes and she's not on my mind. I'm completely in love with everything she is. Thank you!