Thank you...we are very happy/excited to have found each other.
We exchanged emails for 3-4 days and then met for dinner at a local restaurant. Instant easy connection. Talked for 3 hours that night. Met for coffee a few times after that and have been texting/emailing a lot. No plans for marriage. Neither of us want to be married again but we are very much committed to what we have found and are building.
One tip I think would be offer to offer a 2 week membership maybe for $20 or something. I really think having a paid membership is what made the difference for me and sometimes people are nervous or unsure. Two weeks doesn't seem so bad or scary to try.