Hi! My name is Laura I found out about my HSV in July 2012. I cried every night for a month. I thought my world was over I thought no one could like me for that specific reason much less love me.
Advice to other members:
I had dated some of the men from the site and honestly I didn't feel any sparks with anyone! Then, Ace (flassgordon) winked at me and I thought hmmm he is sure is cute, but as usual I was skeptical! We started chatting in the usual way by a wink, then email then a phone call..... then we met for lunch it was a quick lunch date had an awesome lunch date. Then, he walked me to my car gave me a hug and asked the question "Is there going to be a second date?!" Of course I said yes!! We talked on the phone which is great because most people want to text....although texting is great we both felt like you have to know if you can talk in person! Several phone calls later (and of course texts) we had our second date and we went to dinner. He was a gentleman not pushy for sex or anything it was a breathe of fresh air for me. He kissed me and set me on fire! The sweetest thing he asked me "Now will there be a third date?!" ( I said YES! Most definitely! ). We are now officially a couple and we couldn't be any happier! He is the most loving and considerate man I have ever known. I'm keeping this one =) We are excited to see where this goes. He says I'm what he has been looking for! We feel like we found in eachother everything we never knew we always wanted! Thank you to positive singles and good luck to all of the people in our situation! It's there you just have to be persistent!
Oh and the things we enjoy together such as football, baseball, UFC fights and music we scored in the common interests department! Thank you again!! Hopefully you find the one who sparks you too!
Keep looking & be patient, and talk!