No plans for marriage. We have been together almost 7 months. We corresponded for a few weeks before we met in person. Our first date was New Year's Eve day and we went hiking and out to lunch. Our second date was New Year's Day we took a motorcycle ride to a quaint town and did some window shopping and went out for lunch. He is the second serious boyfriend from the site. Both of them being long distance relationships. I think that the site is wonderful! The only draw back is that I live in a rural area and so the distance is always a factor in meeting men. More people need to be on the site, but that is of course your goal! I can't think of any changes that I would recommend. My tip to those trying to find someone is to be willing to go out of the box and meet someone who is not normally your type, and to just keep updating pictures and sending out winks and emails.