I've finally decided to respond to this. I don't mind sharing our story. Yes, we are getting married at the end of this year. At this time we have decided to not come out to our families regarding our diseases. We emailed and chatted with each other for one month before deciding to meet. But we were both on the site for at least a couple of months before we stumbled upon each other's profiles.We decided to meet at a cafe in my hometown. I made sure that we both met there on our own and there was no reason for having either of us pick the other up (for safety reasons).