I winked at a person on PS that appeared to be open minded as I am. (I do not think any male that is looking for someone MUCH younger than he is but is not looking for anyone older that him or close to his own age is open minded ). The guy I met is also very active as I am. We began contact one month prior to my quit date. I don't multitask men, so I quit the site. He did shortly afterward.
We corresponded through the site a couple of times, he then gave me his e-mail address when he figured out I'm not a freak like so many that you meet on these sites are. We met at a local restaurant although I prefer to meet at a beach or someplace for a hike or walk. (It was late and dark)