Just wanted to say...after a couple years of using the site...met some fantastic people. It worked for me. You must not give up too soon. It is not overnight..but in May 09 we met, and we are still together. Living together. We both have STD: Herpes, and if not for Herpes....we would have never met! How strange is that? I love him lots, and he feels the same.
Advice to other members:
I wish everyone out there could find the same!
Don't give up. Stop searching for perfection, cause no body is perfect. Be honest - about everything.