Don't give up. You can and will find love. I met my husband on this site. We have been married now for 6 wonderful months. My advice, be honest men and women. Do not represent yourself to be something you are not. Most marriages don't work because people get tired of pretending after a few years, leading the other to think they have "changed". People don't change, they get tired of pretending. To thine own self be true. Good luck and remember to tell the truth.