It's really amazing. Just joined this site and met a man that lives near my daughter. Corresponded for about a week, met in person last weekend. Very nice guy with values, old fashioned, christian and wants to see where this goes. We agreed to cancel our dating sites for now and concentrate on building a friendship that hopefully will lead to a relationship. My feelings are that there are nice men on this site that just got unlucky like me. Before all this, all the guys I was meeting were just players. So, I met him down at the pier and we just enjoyed spending time together and talking. I stayed at my daughter's house. There was no pressure from him. I think he was really looking for a lady that he didn't need to have the talk with.