I have started a very successful relationship with someone who was on your site. I think your service is great. I have been hiding my problem for years and your site encouraged me to see that it wasn't anything to be ashamed of.
Advice to other members:
We are around 60 years so marriage isn't what we want - a good close friendship is more suitable at our time of life. We are just about to take off for a trip to Istanbul, Bulgaria, Romania, Hungary, Serbia and Greece. It is great to have a partner to go with.
We corresponded for a short time before meeting for coffee. We only saw each other at venues like that for a couple of months.
Even people who contact you who you are not interested in. We are all the same inside. Treat other people how you would like to be treated yourself. And don't feel rejected if someone doesn't take up your invitation - everyone is looking for something for their own reasons.
It doesn't mean that you are not attractive - you are just not what they are looking for. Someone will come along who is looking for someone just like you, if you are patient.
Thanks again and good luck everyone.