I have a boyfriend...thank you :) I met him on here....and am very happy.
We emailed for 2 weeks, spoke by text and by phone during that same time period. We live an hour and a half apart. We were supposed to get together after a week, but it didn't work out that way. We were able to get together the following week, and our first date turned into 4 days together. We were supposed to go to the hot springs pool on our first evening, but there was a huge thunderstorm and it poured. We ended up watching the lightening and just talking for hours. The next day we went fly fishing on a clear mountain stream, then to a concert in Aspen at night...it was an amazing mix of experiences that we were both comfortable in. There were so many things we had in common, and we just could not tear ourselves apart. We are both extremely happy together...
we both have different stories behind our positive status, but our marriages and divorces are similar. We are compatible in every possible way. As I type this it has been almost 2 months that we have been together. We are looking into the future, as he is job hunting in my town so that we can get a place together. I had been on PS for almost a year, with negative success. I live in a very small town, and it is a difficult position to be in. I had dated one person from the site a few times but that as really not a good situation...he was not who he presented himself to be. My boyfriend had only been on PS for 3 weeks before he emailed me. We really hit it off immediately, and agreed to discontinue our memberships to the site because we both just knew that we had found the person whom we were meant to be with. We have spoken of marriage, but in the future.We have to be in the same town first...and we also both have children from our previous marriages so we need to take them into consideration when planning our lives together.
I do want to thank you for making it possible for people like us to have a place to be able to find dates without the fear of ridicule or rejection due to our health status. I will keep the email address handy so that I can update you on anything in the future. Thank you :)