I just got on this site. It's just really comforting to know it's here. I love God and I love Jesus with all my heart soul and mind. I don't believe however that sex is a sin. Sex is a gift from God. We get in trouble when we are not healthy emotionally, physically and mentally. People engage in sex for all reasons some of them very good ones, some bad ones. Some of us got STD's from spouses and lovers that we trusted and were vulnerable too. God suffers with us and is not punishing anyone.