Q: I am 43yo male who just recently became infected with genital herpes. I have been communicating everyday via email with a lady in Thailand for three months. We care a great deal for each other but I have not disclosed my condition to her. I plan to travel to Thailand soon to see her for the first time. I do not know if I should inform her of my condition by email or in person? Any help? Thanks.
It sounds like your in a tuff situation. Keep in mind the only people that need to know about your situation is someone who is supportive, someone you trust and/or someone who you may have a sexual relationship with. Telling a partner in person has its pluses.... For detail, click here.