one night stands

I've had herpes for over 8 years now. I contracted it from a person that gave me bad information (i.e. she told me I wouldn't get it unless she was having a ful...     For detail, click here.

how to have the talk

I have had H for almost two years. It was given to me by a boyfriend, what a special gift!!! Anyway since that time I have had a very hard time in the dating wo...     For detail, click here.

Don't stay in the River of Denial & Depresion

I me this guy who has had H for the pasts 8 years... he was still bitter about it and also in a bit of denial. He said that he could never forgive the partner w...     For detail, click here.

Having children/wife

I thought when I first found out I had HIV that I would never get married or have children. Turns out I was wrong. I got married 2 years after I was diagnose...     For detail, click here.

keep your heart shining bright

Just thought id adds some good news for those who have lost hope. I never did find anyone on here. But I did find an amazing woman in my home town and not by...     For detail, click here.

my life

When I was younger I was in an orphanage, then with children’s aid in 31 different homes then a training school because they couldn’t find a proper home for me....     For detail, click here.

Scared out of my mind

I am truly amazed at the people in my life. I told three people I was infected and I received nothing but encouragement and support. The hardest part was contac...     For detail, click here.

Disclosure on

I add the following disclosure to the end of my pages on "regular" dating sites. The reception has mostly been positive; and, a few women have thanked me for d...     For detail, click here.

The ole

I know how scary, unsure and nerve-wracking it can be to have the dreaded "conversation". However, the sooner it's had the better. I realized that when I beca...     For detail, click here.

Never give up

Living with the HIV is not a death sentence.I was diagonised in 2006 and my viral load was less than 200,meaning I had fullblown AIDS but now my viral load is 6...     For detail, click here.