Don't Give Up!
I had been a member for about a year before I met my boyfriend. I had been on a few first dates, some of them good some of them bad. Though I did at times get to the point of throwing up my hands, I am glad that I did not give up.
Advice to other members:
I used to wonder "why, oh why me", but now I am so thankful. I have met the man of my dreams! If it were not for this road I am on, if it were not for this site, I would never have met my better half. If ever we were to have a child we'll name it after you lol :)
Do not ever EVER give up! Leave as detailed a profile as possible, post pictures! The more detail and pictures you post, the more nibbles you will get!
Be open, go on first dates! The only way you'll know for sure is if you try!