Glad I sent him that wink!
I have never been into the long distance dating thing, but sometimes you have to take the chance otherwise you never know. It was such a random act that brought us together, but what we both found together is far from random. We are still living in two separate states (I'm in Southern California, he's in Colorado), but with video skype, phones, texts and as frequent as possible visits we make it work. It's all about communication and we had a month and a half to just talk before we met. I'm planning on moving to Colorado next year and can't wait to be around him every day.
Advice to other members:
I'm so grateful to this site and the people I have met. It took a emotionally and pyschologically devastating situation and turned it into a wonderful thing. Thank you so much!!
Sometimes when things seem the hardest you learn the most about yourself. Don't give up and keep fighting....we ALL deserve to be loved and to be happy.