The last day of my gold membership I looked thru profiles and found a guy that I thought fit all the requirements I was searching for. Boy did I find the right guy. I have never met anyone so compatable to me. I have always felt I was an outsider because of how I view things and my standards. Well this guy meets them all and then some. I decided to fly him up for my birthday party. Could have been a disaster, wasn't. It was like we have known eachother for years. All of my friends really like him. All night I kept getting thumbs up from my friends. My friends are really critical and opinionated. He passed with flying colors. Thank you for having this site for poeple like me and so many others. This site allows us to focus without having to worry about our dirty little secret. It takes all of the pressure off. Thanks again
Advice to other members:
Be patient, set your sights on what you want, and always be honest.