I think I met my match.
I think I met my match. I started emailing someone that sent me a wink from the site. His username is adrenaline4fun. He is exactly what I am looking for. We talk online often and now on the phone. I currently live in Austria and he is in Guam. We will meet in January, when we both return to the states. I am keeping my fingers crossed that this is it. We will see. If not, I'll be back